So I found this website "The Art of Manliness"

[seabeyond]

7. what is a hoot with all this? i listen to men define masculinity and it is never exclusively man.

it is not a definition of man. it is always merely human condition.

brave/courage. like a woman cannot and is not brave.

strong. maybe a a physical to an extent as a whole denying individuality, but strength beyond physical, women too are all over it.

what character that is man, .... is exclusively his?

since there is non. since they lost the superiority in brain power, ability to do finance and control money at home, and all the other "male" characters that were about controlling and dominating women, the only one i see now is the.... ever so awesome erection. a sexual control and dominance. hence masculinities sole definition is in his sexuality and women being the servers and providers... providers, see that, and womens sexuality ignored and invisible.

that is the only myth of male dominance left to destroy.