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SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
15. Never feel guilty about putting a book down.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 01:13 PM
Sep 2014

With all due respect to those who always finish, because they feel in the end it's worth it, I'm on the "Life's too short to waste time reading a book you don't like" wagon.

The same way we have very different tastes in what we like to read, our inclination to finish or not finish is personal. For many years I'd always finish a book I started, until I turned forty or maybe fifty, and I realized that there is simply not enough time to read all the books I want to read, so putting down a book that's not working for me is the right choice.

I mostly get books out of the library these days, and try to restrict my buying to books I can't get from the library, or think I'll want to reread someday, or refer to in some way. Right now I have four books checked out, 14 on hold, two of which are ready to be picked up, and 122 on the "books I want to check out and read at some point" list. I also have somewhere upwards of a hundred unread books in my small home. Haven't the energy to do an actual count, but that feels like a good estimate. My biggest problem is that I read both fiction and non fiction, many genres, many topics. It would be easier to tell you what categories I don't read.

So anyway, if a book simply isn't keeping your interest after whatever you think is a reasonable point, then drop it and read something else. You won't regret it.

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Oh yes shenmue Sep 2014 #1
I just have so many other more interesting books I want to get to. closeupready Sep 2014 #2
Why feel guilty? Think of all the time you did NOT waste by reading through to the end. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #3
That's a good way of putting it, yes. Thanks. closeupready Sep 2014 #4
Re-reading good books is always a good idea. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #9
Totally Agree Wolf Frankula Sep 2014 #17
I very seldom give up on a book I've started. Here's why (a few reasons). Old Crow Sep 2014 #5
Thanks those are some good points. closeupready Sep 2014 #7
LOL... good point, actually, regarding Wikipedia Old Crow Sep 2014 #10
Factoid of the day: when I'm indecisive about what to read next, closeupready Sep 2014 #14
At the risk of being picky, SheilaT Oct 2014 #32
Guilty over not finishing a book? No way. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #6
Thanks - I really resent being drawn in to this piece of crap book. closeupready Sep 2014 #8
Donate the book to your local library, or a homeless shelter, or a 2nd hand store. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #12
With all the great books that I have yet to read, Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #11
I so agree fadedrose Sep 2014 #13
Ah, so true about just trying to get to the end Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #16
Never feel guilty about putting a book down. SheilaT Sep 2014 #15
Thanks - I did put it down, and closeupready Sep 2014 #25
I feel a little guilty, but I do it anyway. Chemisse Sep 2014 #18
I seldom quit a book part way through. Enthusiast Sep 2014 #19
I give a book 10% of the total pages Goblinmonger Sep 2014 #20
Your first mistake was buying a Clive Cussler book. Tracer Sep 2014 #21
lol, yeah - you know, like a lot of people, I do pre-judge a book closeupready Sep 2014 #22
Good choice! oldandhappy Sep 2014 #23
Yes libodem Sep 2014 #24
No. Not in the least bit. And, I've learned several hard lessons along the way... GOLGO 13 Sep 2014 #26
Yes. Sometimes. AngryOldDem Oct 2014 #27
I happened to like "The Girl at the Lion D'Or" very much, SheilaT Oct 2014 #28
Absolutely no guilt! gratefultobelib Oct 2014 #29
I'm 65..... llmart Oct 2014 #30
Nope bigwillq Oct 2014 #31
No guilt Susannah Elf Apr 2015 #33
I used to, but like others have mentioned, hippywife Apr 2015 #34
Not unless it's a book on loan from a friend. Paladin Apr 2015 #35
Nope. I'm in the middle of one right now, a loan from a friend, and I don't think I'm going to raccoon Apr 2015 #36
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