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Tobin S.

(10,420 posts)
3. Alright, man.
Wed Sep 18, 2013, 06:05 PM
Sep 2013

Take a rest. School will be there if you decide to try it again. Take it from me; I'm a 40 year old senior at Indiana University. I'll be 41 in a few weeks.

I apologize if it appeared that I was trying to push you to do something you didn't want to do. I just think back ten years ago when I was your age. I was giving college my second try then and only made it two quarters. I was trying to say to you the things that might have changed my mind back then. But you and I are different people. We are in different situations and have different problems. I should not have assumed what might have worked for me would work for you.

I will offer a bit of advice and I don't think this will be out of line despite what I said above. I think a problem with what you were doing is that you were not in a field of study that works with your strengths. I've seen you produce some amazing photographs, pictures that look to me to be of a professional talent. I'd explore that or something related to it as a possible career.

Hang in there. TexasTowelie Sep 2013 #1
Thanks TT!... Locut0s Sep 2013 #7
I also had these mini breakdowns annm4peace Sep 2013 #9
Guided Imjary also called hypnosis annm4peace Sep 2013 #10
Hey, so sorry you went through this. Denninmi Sep 2013 #2
Thanks Denninmi you have been very supportive... Locut0s Sep 2013 #8
Alright, man. Tobin S. Sep 2013 #3
Please don't feel like you need to apologize... Locut0s Sep 2013 #6
Sleep is good. hunter Sep 2013 #4
Thank you hunter... Locut0s Sep 2013 #5
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