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appalachiablue

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19. No problem, thanks for the reply. Yes, I saw your
Tue Feb 20, 2024, 11:44 PM
Feb 2024

comment about the how oddly the question was posed. I understand how some seniors are concerned about remaining in their home and may be on edge about it, even a bit paranoid.

In the last 20+ years, there's been a mass amount of media and marketing focused on the subject of aging, esp the large, Boomer generation. Plentiful articles about mountain and beach retirement properties and communities, health and fitness, travel, etc. I know my parents and grandparents didn't see anything like this in their senior years.

As well, emphasis on the topic of growing older and less independent. The need for home help devices- 'help, I've fallen and I can't get up' was the topic of a lively SNL skit.

A while ago I read an AARP article about when the family and parent should meet with the doctor to determine whether driving should be discontinued. I'll post that here if I can find it.

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Why would you not tell your provider about falls? TwilightZone Feb 2024 #1
I think they want me to move out of my house CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #3
Who is "they" that want you to move? nt DURHAM D Feb 2024 #5
I have been inundated with calls and emails from real estate brokers and flippers-- viva la Feb 2024 #7
Me too, and I ignore them. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #10
Anyone and everyone who owns a house gets the calls/mailings from flippers Merlot Feb 2024 #14
REAL ESTATE OFFERS MotownPgh Feb 2024 #15
The fall question is a standard one. TwilightZone Feb 2024 #8
Why would your doctor want you to move out of your house? Ocelot II Feb 2024 #9
My cousins doctor asked her the fall question and she responded yes. DURHAM D Feb 2024 #2
Falls are often a result of a momentary blackout or heart arrhythmia viva la Feb 2024 #4
They always ask about falls if you're older. There's a good reason for it. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #6
That's a strange and blunt opening for a health care provider. appalachiablue Feb 2024 #11
I don't understand the problem. Asking about falls is a standard question Ocelot II Feb 2024 #12
It's the manner in which it was stated, as an assumption appalachiablue Feb 2024 #13
Didn't intend to insult your expertise Ocelot II Feb 2024 #17
No problem, thanks for the reply. Yes, I saw your appalachiablue Feb 2024 #19
As a retired nurse, I understand why you didn't want to tell them. If like me, you have no family or friends nearby. Runningdawg Feb 2024 #16
Bingo CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #18
I hope you get the help and peace of mind that you deserve. Runningdawg Feb 2024 #20
I want them to leave me alone CountAllVotes Feb 2024 #21
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