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In reply to the discussion: She really should smile more... [View all]

Collimator

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16. "To be fair in the last board meeting, me pounding the desk and shouting. . ."
Mon Feb 10, 2020, 01:53 PM
Feb 2020

". . . may have been a tad emotional..."

Yes, it was. And if a man had done it, it would have been considered forceful. Maybe some people would have been taken aback, but the word "emotional" would not have been used with the scorn intended whenever that word is directed towards women.

Any Vulcan who passed Logic classes by the points of their ears could tell you that human males are the emotional ones. It is just that their emotions are --while perhaps expressed differently-- always valued differently.

I know that I shared this on another thread long ago, but I read about a sign posted in a women's shelter.

"Men are afraid that women are going to laugh at them; women are afraid that men are going to kill them."

Yes, I am perfectly willing to qualify that statement with #notallmen, because I really don't think that poorly of that half of humanity. But that statement, with all the emotional context that it touches upon, really describes the problem that patriarchy enables.

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She really should smile more... [View all] Soph0571 Feb 2020 OP
K&R for visibility. nt tblue37 Feb 2020 #1
✔️ blm Feb 2020 #2
There's an Alan Parsons Project song called "You Don't Believe" that addresses these CaptYossarian Feb 2020 #3
Enthusiast KICK! (Or is that arrogant?) heh. Guilded Lilly Feb 2020 #4
You say arrogant... I say audacious :-) Hurrah!!!! Soph0571 Feb 2020 #10
I was just recently told I was "overly emotional" and "reacting disproportionately." Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #5
Oh behalf of the men in this world VWolf Feb 2020 #6
I quit my job last summer because of the same thing Soph0571 Feb 2020 #11
"To be fair in the last board meeting, me pounding the desk and shouting. . ." Collimator Feb 2020 #16
100% nt Soph0571 Feb 2020 #18
Excellent point. Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #22
I think I love you. Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #21
Lol! JudyM Feb 2020 #29
Now see, my response to such a statement would have been lunatica Feb 2020 #13
My reaction was... Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #20
Oh yeah! lunatica Feb 2020 #24
Ha ha! My husband recently said, "you're a sweet middle aged lady right up until your not" to me. Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #26
LOL! lunatica Feb 2020 #27
He's a "counterpuncher" who LITERALLY eats White House documents! Dukkha Feb 2020 #7
I clicked on your OP ready to fight with you lunatica Feb 2020 #8
LOL. Fisti cuffs at dawn? Or is that us being hysterical... Soph0571 Feb 2020 #9
MSNBC's Donny Deutsch described Warren as "strident" and "unlikeable" joost5 Feb 2020 #12
You know what strident is in the real world of brilliant women... Soph0571 Feb 2020 #14
KnR yonder Feb 2020 #15
... BlueMTexpat Feb 2020 #17
Please call me Soph Soph0571 Feb 2020 #19
Will do, Soph! BlueMTexpat Feb 2020 #25
LOL! lunatica Feb 2020 #28
Yes, the deck is totally tilted against women. lark Feb 2020 #23
He seems presidential. Sparkly Mar 2020 #30
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