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35. Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow.
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 07:50 PM
6 hrs ago

If it snowed overnight, mine would make breakfast, then go outside, get a handful of snow and squeeze it and squeeze it until her little hands were ice cold. Then she'd sneak in my room and put them on my back.

Then she'd smile ever so sweetly and say, "Breakfast is ready."

A few months later, in the spring, she would walk around the back of the house to find a small green hose coiled up like a snake. My mom had nerves of steel (Navy Airman) and laughed at things that would terrify mortal humans (bungie jumping off a Chinese bridge at ate 75), but she was scared ti death of snakes. Or hoses that looked like snakes.

I was evily cackling in the kitchen, listening to her scream, when the door flew open and she caught me and knew I did it on purpose.

You are going to miss your mom, friend. My only suggestion is when you start to feel blue, think of a time that can only bring a smile to your face. You don't have to wallow in the end, you can relive all the good parts with some effort. Hugs to you.

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My Mother passed away this week. [View all] jackcrow2001 9 hrs ago OP
condolences markie 9 hrs ago #1
Deepest condolences SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #2
Sorry for you. My mother was also 82 when she passed surfered 9 hrs ago #3
I am so sorry for your loss MIButterfly 9 hrs ago #4
Deepest sympathy to you, your sisters malaise 9 hrs ago #5
Healing vibes for you and your family on the loss of your mother. niyad 9 hrs ago #6
I am so sorry for your loss. It's actually Ilsa 9 hrs ago #7
She sounded like such a grand woman. RIP and I am sorry for your loss. Passages 9 hrs ago #8
May her soul soar! Sending you and your family hugs and condolences. MLAA 9 hrs ago #9
Condolences to You and your Family marked50 9 hrs ago #10
My deepest condolences to you and your family brer cat 9 hrs ago #11
A profound passing and a moonscape 9 hrs ago #12
She sounds like she was a wonderful person mcar 9 hrs ago #13
Sympathies and prayer for you and yours B.See 9 hrs ago #14
Sorry for your loss, jackcrow2001 senseandsensibility 9 hrs ago #15
Your mom seemed a lot like my own mother. La Coliniere 9 hrs ago #16
I'm so sorry for your loss. StarryNite 9 hrs ago #17
My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling 8 hrs ago #18
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother Grim Chieftain 8 hrs ago #19
Nothing prepares us. Deep condolences, jackcrow2001. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #20
Condolences, strength to you, and your family electric_blue68 8 hrs ago #21
So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 8 hrs ago #22
My condolences to you and your family... Spazito 8 hrs ago #23
So sorry, jackcrow2001, may the memories of your dear mother be a blessing to you debm55 8 hrs ago #24
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork 8 hrs ago #25
Sorry to hear that. Figarosmom 8 hrs ago #26
I am so very sorry. The loss of one's mother is profound and earth shifting. Bumbles 8 hrs ago #27
I'm sorry for your loss. Ocelot II 8 hrs ago #28
The memories of your dear Mother will help get you through this. democrank 8 hrs ago #29
... alwaysinasnit 7 hrs ago #30
Sincerest condolences. nt in2herbs 7 hrs ago #31
mother retiredwelder 7 hrs ago #32
My condolences. Love to you and hers. MerryBlooms 7 hrs ago #33
My condolences. mr715 7 hrs ago #34
Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow. Teacher of the Year 6 hrs ago #35
sorry about losing your mom.... peacebuzzard 5 hrs ago #36
She sounds like an interesting mom. My condolences for your loss. chowder66 4 hrs ago #37
I'm sorry cate94 3 hrs ago #38
Very sorry for your loss. GoodRaisin 3 hrs ago #39
I am very sorry for your loss. LoisB 2 hrs ago #40
Bless her. Joinfortmill 2 hrs ago #41
She sounds like a wonderful woman Laurelin 2 hrs ago #42
I'm sorry for your loss. live love laugh 1 hr ago #43
My condolences. May your mother rest in peace. oasis 1 hr ago #44
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