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valleyrogue

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16. No sane woman drops out of the labor market to be financially dependent on a man.
Fri Apr 3, 2026, 09:51 AM
Yesterday

The ONLY valid reason for staying at home temporarily is to save on child care costs. Women who do this are literally unemployed--not workers but dependents--and are treated as such by law and by employers. There is no point women getting all defensive about this and claiming they are doing "unpaid labor" and think they should be compensated when everybody does the same thing regardless if they are employed.

The "tradwives" the media brag about are not "traditional" at all--they are self-employed, often making big bucks, as content creators or "influencers." Not the same thing as so many women were saddled with in the 1950s through the early 1970s.

Besides, the "housewife" or "homemaker" was an aberration and anything but "traditional."

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The right wing is filled with so many angry weirdos newdeal2 Yesterday #1
Can many of these guys afford that lifestyle? leftstreet Yesterday #2
No, they can't afford it, and when they realize it, it's the woman's fault and she better get a job! mucholderthandirt Yesterday #6
Some do still have jobs, just more ad-hoc or part time EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #19
I'm confused. Has Robnett's team never been online? EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #3
I had the same reaction. yardwork Yesterday #8
Well ... yeah! Scrivener7 Yesterday #4
Doesn't shock me at all Quiet Em Yesterday #5
I am trying not to hate Gen Z men. DonCoquixote Yesterday #7
Lots of Gen Z men are wonderful people. yardwork Yesterday #9
ok, I get that DonCoquixote Yesterday #10
I agree that online influence is a problem. yardwork Yesterday #11
Boomers Hated Gen X??? ProfessorGAC Yesterday #14
I missed that memo as well ornotna Yesterday #17
I Think We Need... ProfessorGAC Yesterday #23
Sorry you're feeling sorry for yourself GenThePerservering Yesterday #20
File this under "Duh!" n/t intheflow Yesterday #12
Message auto-removed Name removed Yesterday #13
now follow the money. mopinko Yesterday #15
No sane woman drops out of the labor market to be financially dependent on a man. valleyrogue Yesterday #16
Even the savings on childcare are often overestimated EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #22
How can anyone justify nine children in this day and age ? These people are in full denial of ... well, everything. nt eppur_se_muova Yesterday #18
Are we reaching peak male fragility yet? nt GenThePerservering Yesterday #21
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