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llmart

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71. I think what you are describing is one answer (a very major answer) to the problem.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 03:00 PM
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I don't willingly or knowingly have anyone in my life that is MAGA or even a Republican. I know a couple in my mostly senior neighborhood that are and I don't even acknowledge that they exist - no greeting, no eye contact, nothing. They want to push their unholy nonsense on others and still be accepted but not with me. I found out recently that my next door neighbor has been doing the same. He used to talk to a couple frequently and even had them over for drinks on their deck once or twice until he found out they voted Republican. He told me he can no longer have any connection to them. He is devoutly Christian and said he's never hated anyone in his life, but he knows that he hates Trump.

I'm not saying that's what you are doing, but you have found a place where you are going to find many like minded people (and by like minded I mean just civil and kind and dare I say educated? It helps greatly to surround yourself with people like that to balance out the daily onslaught of pure evil we are seeing.

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Some of the stress has been caused by the financial pressure and that is caused by Trump's bad policies Walleye Yesterday #1
Exactly. LuckyCharms Yesterday #4
It sure is stressful, my dear LuckyCharms! It does take a toll. CaliforniaPeggy Yesterday #2
How are you today? Back in the world! 1WorldHope Yesterday #22
oh there are lots of studies on the effects of stress Kali Yesterday #3
I think the "variables" the OP was talking about Wednesdays Yesterday #14
That's right. You said it better than I did. n/t LuckyCharms Yesterday #19
I SCAN post titles and only open ones where I think I can help. usonian Yesterday #5
Agree 100%, but my point is... LuckyCharms Yesterday #6
Taking action is less stressful than not taking action. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #10
Yes, in most cases. LuckyCharms Yesterday #16
"It only hurts if you care" usonian Yesterday #15
Reduce stress by not renting free space in your mind and by taking action Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #7
I had a conversation about this with my department chair last week Redleg Yesterday #8
Keep the awareness. REGAIN the tranquility. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #11
I wish it was that easy Redleg Yesterday #18
Don't diminish this fight. It's not just one man. Biophilic Yesterday #9
This is a good point and probably what bothers me the most Redleg Yesterday #12
They should move to another county. CaptainTruth Yesterday #61
"...a good number of people in this country are flaming assholes." 3catwoman3 Yesterday #62
Yes, hence my point #2 in the OP. LuckyCharms Yesterday #17
Like zombies being brought to life PatSeg Yesterday #40
"Like zombies being brought to life" LuckyCharms Yesterday #42
Thanks PatSeg Yesterday #49
Exactly. yellow dahlia 21 hrs ago #90
"Maybe it is true, anyone CAN become President!" PatSeg 8 hrs ago #105
Yes and no. They've been working towards this for a long time. Biophilic Yesterday #47
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Damn, all that work to set up an account... LuckyCharms Yesterday #53
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You are not. You are dull. You bring your echo chamber here. We read Reichwing sites, so we know. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #57
The trolls are active today, MarineCombatEngineer Yesterday #58
Her 3rd of the day so far! BumRushDaShow Yesterday #63
Kinda figured it was LG. MarineCombatEngineer Yesterday #65
The tRump Derangement disease is strong in you. You've been CONned about antifa and a lot of stuff. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #54
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Work on root causes? usonian Yesterday #29
Hits home, LuckyCharms some_of_us_are_sane Yesterday #70
I was living a similar experience. yellow dahlia 20 hrs ago #91
I remember the morning after election day in 2016... LuckyCharms 20 hrs ago #92
I have not fully lost that feeling. yellow dahlia 20 hrs ago #96
How about THIS, usonian some_of_us_are_sane Yesterday #68
But I can't join my own club? usonian Yesterday #72
The chin isn't important... some_of_us_are_sane Yesterday #74
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Paul Giamatti? nt. druidity33 Yesterday #81
NO MERLOT !!! thought crime 21 hrs ago #86
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I am truly sorry for the violence you have endured. LuckyCharms Yesterday #34
Thank you. pandr32 Yesterday #37
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Mostly I try to barrage myself PatSeg 8 hrs ago #104
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In one of my classes Turbineguy Yesterday #30
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We are moving to a retirement community, Masonicare, full of old liberals, like us... CTyankee Yesterday #31
I think what you are describing is one answer (a very major answer) to the problem. llmart Yesterday #71
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...and a saguaro cactus. lastlib Yesterday #32
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It has all taken quite a toll PatSeg Yesterday #35
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I know. I just want to wake up and not hear the name. LisaM Yesterday #43
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Ten years, plus. Miles Archer Yesterday #55
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My go to these days is, Prairie_Seagull Yesterday #66
Part of the plan... 2naSalit Yesterday #67
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so perceptive - thank you RT Atlanta Yesterday #77
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I say this everyday... PittBlue Yesterday #79
It's "Living the Crisis Lifestlye" "On the cortisol rollercoaster" "Always constant drama"............. Clouds Passing Yesterday #80
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Tell me about it!!! BigmanPigman Yesterday #83
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I was comparing a picture of me from 2016 and one from a couple of months ago. Aristus 9 hrs ago #102
Same here, Aristus. LuckyCharms 9 hrs ago #103
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