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usaf-vet

(7,529 posts)
Sat May 24, 2025, 02:36 PM May 24

I'm posting this for the first time on DU. This flower has a history in my family. Explained below.

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Yonnie3 (a host of the The Way Forward forum).

From the first time my dad took me fishing when I was five, this flower has marked a yearly event.




Every year, with the sighting of the first Dandelion, we would communicate about the sighting.
It was and still is a biological cue that the fish we like to target were "running" in the tidal waters in Wareham, MA.

No matter where he was or I was (away in the USAF), we would call each other to say the dandelions are in bloom, which was code for "time to go fishing". I have told this story before, perhaps even here on DU in the past.

Now, 73 years later, the message comes, but not just from each other; it now comes from dozens of my family and friends, no matter where they live.

My dad passed away in 1999, but the message continues to come every year. Now, with the advent of cellphones, the message often comes in the form of a picture—just a picture.

I know, and the sender knows how much that memory means to me. "Time to go fishing!"

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Walleye

(40,770 posts)
1. When salmon fishing in Alaska, the dandelions were blooming a lot.
Sat May 24, 2025, 02:45 PM
May 24

I know some people think dandelions are just weeds, but I really like their yellow color and the fresh spring

Bernardo de La Paz

(56,224 posts)
12. The have their time and place. No Mow May is a good time for them. After that, no mercy with the fork :)
Sat May 24, 2025, 04:37 PM
May 24

Dem2theMax

(10,698 posts)
2. This brought tears to my eyes.
Sat May 24, 2025, 02:59 PM
May 24

My dad's been gone for 13 years. I'm the girl tomboy who always went fishing with him. But I would not put a worm on a hook.

Thanks for sharing this lovely story. From now on, when I see dandelions, you know what I'll be thinking.

usaf-vet

(7,529 posts)
5. Thank my Dad! As I do every year when I see .... you know what!
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:11 PM
May 24

chowder66

(10,645 posts)
3. Such a touching tribute. Thank you for sharing.
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:01 PM
May 24

rsdsharp

(10,855 posts)
4. That's a great memory of your father.
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:09 PM
May 24

I have a memory of my dad, and dandelions, too. He’d had me a putty knife, and tell me to go dig the damn things out of the yard.

usaf-vet

(7,529 posts)
6. Amazing what memories our dads hand us.
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:13 PM
May 24

calimary

(86,543 posts)
7. A perfect dandelion. Just glorious in its simplicity. We take them for granted.
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:31 PM
May 24

A little masterpiece so easily overlooked. But if you stop for a moment and just focus on one of them, just ponder their beauty, a simple dandelion becomes a work of great art.

You could frame this photo and hang it on the wall!

Or use this photo in a set of cards (postcards OR regular folded cards), and give them as gifts. Everybody you care about would absolutely LOVE them - ESPECIALLY knowing that YOU took this photo! (If you felt like it, you could add “photo by “ in small letters with your name added, discretely on the other side.) ANY local printer could do it.

usaf-vet

(7,529 posts)
9. I thought of that years ago, but I have at least 73 years of dandelions worthy of having a card made.....
Sat May 24, 2025, 04:08 PM
May 24

....where to start, where to end. I'm shooting for 100.

Figarosmom

(6,092 posts)
8. Thats sweet
Sat May 24, 2025, 03:37 PM
May 24

I haven't been fishing for years. It's one of simple things in live that I really love.

AllaN01Bear

(25,474 posts)
10. thanks for sharing.
Sat May 24, 2025, 04:21 PM
May 24

Hekate

(97,933 posts)
11. My smile for the day.....
Sat May 24, 2025, 04:28 PM
May 24

twodogsbarking

(13,880 posts)
13. I knew a number of people who would pick the young leaves for salad or cooking.
Sat May 24, 2025, 04:47 PM
May 24

Wild turnips too. Hotter than a nuclear core.

Tetrachloride

(8,755 posts)
14. a man i know said "I saw my first robin"
Sat May 24, 2025, 05:05 PM
May 24

SharonClark

(10,483 posts)
15. You've posted in the wrong forum.
Sat May 24, 2025, 05:58 PM
May 24

The way forward forum was created to discuss Democratic politics and the future.
If you read the “about” under the forum name, it explains the purpose of the forum.

ultralite001

(1,716 posts)
16. Those striving to find the way forward...
Sun May 25, 2025, 12:31 AM
May 25

will be looking for signs...

for safety... for direction...

A dandelion is perfect in this regard... Subtle in its simplicity... Some will see weed... Others will know the dandelion means
much, much more...

Yonnie3

(18,742 posts)
17. Locking after an alert and after hosts' discussion
Sun May 25, 2025, 08:18 AM
May 25

This forum is to

Discuss the future of the Democratic Party and the left, strategies to rebuild the party's influence and reach, and tactics to retake political power from the right.


Please see the pinned post in this forum https://www.democraticunderground.com/13241

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