Not sure if I post this here........my husband of 42 years passed away today, a year ago.....5-4-24

[a kennedy]

Still can’t talk about him and how I feel. I JUST MISS HIM SO MUCH.

[yardwork]

1. I'm so sorry.

[Srkdqltr]

2. A hug for you.

I'm glad you did. We all care here.

[SuzyandPuffpuff]

3. My dear

My friend lost her best friend hubby recently. My brother lost his best friend dear wife recently. We all have to do this. Sometimes they go first... other times we exit and leave them behind. Excruciating pain. But yr lucky to have lost him while Yu loved him rather than losing him and not caring. Either way it sucks.take solace in friends family pets laughter and memories .

[underpants]

4. ❤️

[Eko]

5. Hugs to you.

[gopiscrap]

6. oh my gosh as far as I am concerned you

could post it anywhere. My prayers are with you. May you cherish the memories you have had together. Mike C

[Deuxcents]

7. Sending hugs and DU family love and wishing you only sweet memories 💕

[Dark n Stormy Knight]

23. I want to join in with this comment

because I couldn't have said it better.

[Diamond_Dog]

8. Here's a hug for you

[deRien]

9. I recently was talking to a friend

and told her how I wasn't asked how I was doing after my husband died. Her response was "she didn't want to make me cry".
I truly believe that tears are a way of healing. So let your tears flow and let your husband's name be spoken. Everyone's grief experience is different ~ it's a process that we all have to go through ~ for some it's easier ~ others it's just plain hard. Becoming "single" again is hard ~ there's no one to turn and say, "Did you know...." or "Don't forget..." Remember to be kind to yourself and remember those happy memories with your loved one.

[IA8IT]

10. Many Hugs here there anywhere anytime.

[RainCaster]

11. hugs for you as you remember your time together

[SheltieLover]

12. Deepest condolences

[Cha]

13. Ohh.. I'm so Sorry, a kennedy

[JMCKUSICK]

14. I'm so sorry A Kennedy

If I may be so bold, Please talk to him and think about him to your hearts content. After all, you have 42 years of treasures to celebrate.
With Love, John

[HeartsCanHope]

15. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[littlemissmartypants]

16. ❤️

[Skittles]

17. .....

If I should ever leave you whom I love
To go along the Silent Way,
Grieve not,
Nor speak of me with tears,
But laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you there.

(I‘d come – I‘d come, could I but find a way!
But would not tears and grief be barriers?)
And when you hear a song
Or see a bird I loved,
Please do not let the thought of me be sad…
For I am loving you just as I always have…
You were so good to me!

There are so many things I wanted still to do –
So many things to say to you… Remember that I did not fear…
It was just leaving you that was so hard to face… We cannot see Beyond…
But this I know:
I love you so –
Twas heaven here with you!

Isla Paschal Richardson

[Permanut]

22. Got room for one more hug?

[Marie Marie]

18. Sending you love and wishes that,

when you are ready, your profound grief can turn to warm memories.

[LoisB]

19. Oh, a kennedy, I am so very sorry. May The Universe welcome him with open arms.

[Nululu]

20. So very sorry

[FemDemERA]

21. a kennedy, I'm sorry you are having a rough time

And I think you found the perfect place to post. I am glad you posted and that so many saw it and responded. It’s hard to be alone in our grief. I believe Grief is a little easier to bear when shared.

One year or ten, time means little to those who love and have lost their loved one. Love and Grief are two sides of the same coin and neither can be bound by space or time. We don’t “get over” grief, we move through it, with good days and bad. When the hard times hit, it’s nice to know there is someone out there who cares and will listen. Even if it’s through a computer. DU has so many people who seem ready to do just that.

Breathe…. And may tomorrow be a bit easier for you.

Hugs to you.

[PittBlue]

24. Sending you love and peace.

May you find kindness to warm you, sympathy to comfort you and cherished memories to bring peace to your heart. (I found this in a card and thought it was lovely.)

[live love laugh]

25. I'm so sorry 💔

[democrank]

26. I truly understand

Sending you a hug~

[sdfernando]

27. I'm so sorry.

[magicarpet]

28. The fondest of cherished memories must,...

... pop into your mind as you reflect upon 42 years of marriage together.

[markie]

29. I know....

we wish you could talk about him because we would all love to hear about him

I lost my husband 3 years ago and the love does not die..... I know so well how you miss him

[Hassler]

30. I'm sorry for your loss. Going through it my wife right now.

It's tough. Peace and every good.

[snowybirdie]

31. Hugs

Remember the good days

[Clouds Passing]

32. Holding you in comfort, a kennedy 💚

That pain rumbles under our skin waiting for the tiniest of triggers to set it off. I feel your pain. Hugs and love 💕

[Karadeniz]

33. The cost of love.....