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True Dough

(25,860 posts)
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:44 AM Dec 28

What's one thing you'll never do again that you wish you could?

For me, it's to sit down at dinner with my folks, both deceased. I'd dearly love to have that privilege again.

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What's one thing you'll never do again that you wish you could? (Original Post) True Dough Dec 28 OP
Seeing loved ones who have passed will be high on everyone's list biophile Dec 28 #1
Definitely. highplainsdem Dec 28 #11
Run a sub 5-minute mile Redleg Dec 28 #2
Well, at least you achieved that mile in your life. viva la Dec 30 #29
Spend more time with my parents and grandparents. pandr32 Dec 28 #3
Ride a horse SheltieLover Dec 28 #4
I can help you with that one Bayard Dec 28 #7
Lol SheltieLover Dec 28 #12
I have the same affliction..... Bayard Dec 29 #16
... SheltieLover Dec 29 #17
Return to Antarctica. sinkingfeeling Dec 28 #5
The big xmas eve gathering, Bayard Dec 28 #6
... SheltieLover Dec 28 #13
Downhill skiing in VT and NH Ritabert Dec 28 #8
Same bamagal62 Dec 30 #45
Seeing my parents again and down hill skiing. I quit at 72 and miss it surfered Dec 28 #9
Backpacking. lastlib Dec 28 #10
Yeah.. One last childhood Christmas in my Grandmother's living room with my parents, my aunts uncles, sister, cousins hlthe2b Dec 28 #14
+1 Auggie Dec 29 #20
Feel my dog's head laying on my lap JoseBalow Dec 28 #15
Vote for Bill Clinton! Ziggysmom Dec 29 #18
You can always write his name in! nt Shermann Dec 31 #56
That's true! Ziggysmom Dec 31 #59
Eating grandma's homemade bread. Emile Dec 29 #19
Have a conversation with my dad. Mad_Dem_X Dec 29 #21
High road: I need to spend another evening with my dad. Gone 23 years now. quaint Dec 29 #22
Dunk A Basketball ProfessorGAC Dec 30 #23
Would that be True Dough Dec 30 #24
Not Quite ProfessorGAC Dec 30 #27
How tall are you? True Dough Dec 30 #42
Not Close ProfessorGAC Dec 31 #47
Remarkable! True Dough Dec 31 #48
Too Soon ProfessorGAC Dec 31 #49
You could dunk? underpants Dec 30 #32
I Could ProfessorGAC Dec 30 #36
Play volleyball LogDog75 Dec 30 #25
Having a 3 some. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 30 #26
I thought I had a threesome once... LuckyCharms Dec 30 #28
I'm pretty sure I had one. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 30 #33
I can barely make it through a onesome. LuckyCharms Dec 30 #34
I've given up on 1 somes. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 30 #35
. LuckyCharms Dec 30 #37
Will never forget an old friend years ago telling me he was getting divorced MichMan Dec 30 #44
Lasagna dinner with my parents. Skiing. A summer at the cottage with family and friends. applegrove Dec 30 #30
Ride my Honda 750 Gold Wing duckworth969 Dec 30 #31
To hold my blessed grandma's hand Grim Chieftain Dec 30 #38
Play good golf surfered Dec 30 #39
LSD Kali Dec 30 #40
Visit England. Jeebo Dec 30 #41
Well, the obvious one is sit down and spend time with someone you've lost, but I will add a very selfish one... Ferrets are Cool Dec 30 #43
Superficial - After 2 hip replacements, y clog dancing days are over. 3catwoman3 Dec 30 #46
Water ski, and watch a Steeler game with my dad. Dulcinea Dec 31 #50
Quaaludes blm Dec 31 #51
"714" walkingman Dec 31 #54
Know as many like-minded people as I did in the 70s - most have passed. Different world. walkingman Dec 31 #52
La Paz enid602 Dec 31 #53
1. Run a 10k. Ilsa Dec 31 #55
Dive or jump from heights into water. Prairie_Seagull Dec 31 #57
Snort heroin bif Dec 31 #58

viva la

(4,496 posts)
29. Well, at least you achieved that mile in your life.
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:18 PM
Dec 30

That's very impressive.

As for late parents-- I've long thought religions invented "heaven" so that we can hope to see them again.

Bayard

(28,626 posts)
6. The big xmas eve gathering,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:33 PM
Dec 28

With all of my family, alive and well. Close to 15 people crowded into my folks little house, and noisy as hell. It was wonderful.

I get depressed this time every year.

lastlib

(27,566 posts)
10. Backpacking.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:47 PM
Dec 28

I used to throw on a 50-lb pack and be out in the woods for a week, hike 75 miles. Since I broke my leg, I can barely walk to the end of my driveway (100 yards) without pain.

hlthe2b

(112,835 posts)
14. Yeah.. One last childhood Christmas in my Grandmother's living room with my parents, my aunts uncles, sister, cousins
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:36 PM
Dec 28

She had an enormous (at least to all of the kids) historical brick house full of unusual semi-hidden passageways (from many prior add-ons), antiques, and an additional enclosed staircase that some of the cousins could escape to to avoid a few of the others..

Always Christmas dinner-buffet style (given the number of people) and drop-in visitors from the tiny town. Big natural Christmas tree full of packages (name draw for most of them). Nice memories.

quaint

(4,670 posts)
22. High road: I need to spend another evening with my dad. Gone 23 years now.
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 11:58 AM
Dec 29

Low road: I want to ride my dirt bike over the dunes.

ProfessorGAC

(75,861 posts)
23. Dunk A Basketball
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 06:36 PM
Dec 30

And a round of golf with my parents.
Both impossible.
Well, I could still dunk on a 7 foot hoop!

ProfessorGAC

(75,861 posts)
27. Not Quite
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:15 PM
Dec 30

I could do the two hands behind the head thing though.
I couldn't hammer it because my hands weren't big enough to palm the ball. I could do some McLeung type stuff with a volleyball though.
My leaping ability was the linchpin of my game.
In college, I had my standing vertical measured at 45&1/8th inches.
I was a mediocre shooter, but I could jump!
I had some fancy behind back or through the legs layups in my "show off" arsenal. I was in the air plenty long enough.
I played in competitive leagues until I was 38.
I quit before the inevitable knee injury occurred.

ProfessorGAC

(75,861 posts)
47. Not Close
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 07:23 AM
Dec 31

I'm 5'9". I could really jump, TD.
In college, my Standing Vertical was measured at 45&1/8th inches. I was about 5'8" then
The math is simple. At 68", my fingertips were at 84 or 85" when I raised my hand up..add 45" and we're at 129 or 130".
My hand is 7.5" from wrist to fingertips. So, my wrist is around 2" above the rim.
Give me a running start, and my entire hand is 6" above the rim.
Today, my vertical is about 12", maybe it's less. So that talent is long gone.

True Dough

(25,860 posts)
48. Remarkable!
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 07:36 AM
Dec 31

If the right talent scout had seen you in action, maybe you could have played alongside Muggsy Bogues.

ProfessorGAC

(75,861 posts)
49. Too Soon
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 08:57 AM
Dec 31

College scouts weren't looking for score first, rely on athleticism, point guards in the early 70s. My game was more like what we saw from a Westbrook much later. (Not that I had his physique. ) The guards job was to veing it up, call a play, and give it to a tall guy. Not how I plsyed.
That's why I left HS after my junior year for college. I knew I wasn't going anywhere big, for free, to play basketball.
Funny thing is, if I was 6'2" instead of 5'7", I probably would have gotten attention. Not sure getting 18 inches above the rim is that big an advantage over 10", but I'll never know for sure.

ProfessorGAC

(75,861 posts)
36. I Could
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:34 PM
Dec 30

The first time I could touch the rim, I was 5'2" tall.
Don't know where it came from. My dad and my uncles were terribly athletic. (My dad could punt the heck out of a football though. That gene missed me.)
I could dunk a volleyball 90% of the time by the time is was 5'4".
By the time i was 5'7" I could dunk without a run-up.
Now for the downside: as I'm sure you know, dunking was against the rules in HS & college until 1976. Could never dunk in a game.
That's why I loved pickup games. No such rule.

LogDog75

(1,109 posts)
25. Play volleyball
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:04 PM
Dec 30

I learned the game in junior college and played every year of my AF career. At my first base, we won the base championship, played on the base team and won an inter-service tournament and won, our base team won a downtown league and represented the city in the state finals and won. I was best at setting, blocking, serving, and playing the back line. My weakness was spiking but as I got older a became good at spiking. At age 50, I was asked to join the base team for an all-AF tournament but I had to decline because of work.

I miss playing the game and regardless of whether we won or lost I had fun.

LuckyCharms

(21,835 posts)
28. I thought I had a threesome once...
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:16 PM
Dec 30

but it turns out that I just had too much to drink and was seeing double.

LuckyCharms

(21,835 posts)
37. .
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:36 PM
Dec 30


EVERYTHING is too much work these days!

Oh well...

Sometimes people say I'm "handsome", so I got that going for me.

I guess.

MichMan

(16,645 posts)
44. Will never forget an old friend years ago telling me he was getting divorced
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 08:43 PM
Dec 30

Said his soon to be ex wife wanted a threesome. Problem was that he wasn't any of the three.

applegrove

(130,334 posts)
30. Lasagna dinner with my parents. Skiing. A summer at the cottage with family and friends.
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:18 PM
Dec 30

A job in a dynamic situation as a receptionist, preferably at a place that helps people. Tea with all my grandparents and great aunt. Holding my grandmother's hand while visiting her at her nursing home. A picnic of lobster sandwiches, vichyssoise soup, and strawberries and whipped cream with my Dad and siblings which we did quite a few times outside his nursing home. We even had a little white wine (well i didn't drink wine because I don't drink). I'd like to decorate the house for Christmas. Lots of things.

Jeebo

(2,551 posts)
41. Visit England.
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 07:47 PM
Dec 30

I regret not visiting Beatles places in the U.K. and never visiting Liverpool at all. Penny Lane, Abbey Road, Strawberry Fields, Eleanor Rigby's grave, etc. I'm too old and feeble to do that kind of traveling any more, but if I could visit that lovely country again now, those all would be among the first places I would visit. The last time I was in the U.K. was July 2002.

 — Ron

Ferrets are Cool

(22,535 posts)
43. Well, the obvious one is sit down and spend time with someone you've lost, but I will add a very selfish one...
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 08:21 PM
Dec 30

make love.

3catwoman3

(28,608 posts)
46. Superficial - After 2 hip replacements, y clog dancing days are over.
Tue Dec 30, 2025, 09:13 PM
Dec 30

Profound - see my younger brother (and only sibling). He died in 1978, at only 23, in a scuba diving adventure that went wrong.

Dulcinea

(9,680 posts)
50. Water ski, and watch a Steeler game with my dad.
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 04:39 PM
Dec 31

Bad knees preclude me from water skiing, and my dad, who taught me about football when I was a kid, departed this life in 2019. We spent fall & winter Sunday afternoons in the basement cheering for our beloved Steelers until I left for college. You can't grow up in Pittsburgh in the 70s & not be a Steelers fan!

Ilsa

(63,855 posts)
55. 1. Run a 10k.
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 05:13 PM
Dec 31

Time isn't important. I'll just never pound those hip, knee, and ankle joints like that again.

2. Sail a boat in the Gulf of Mexico. Not just because of the name change.

3. Smoke a joint. It's too strong. I might eat a small piece of a THC/ delta-8 gummy, though.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,599 posts)
57. Dive or jump from heights into water.
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 05:55 PM
Dec 31

Jumped off the top of a train trestle once, about 100ft or so. If I did something like this today I would be in for a 5000$ ambulance ride or a dirt nap.

bif

(26,675 posts)
58. Snort heroin
Wed Dec 31, 2025, 08:13 PM
Dec 31

I did it a couple times hitchhiking through Europe in my youth. I'd never trust what was in it these days. It was a beautiful buzz.

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