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AverageOldGuy

(4,289 posts)
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 06:52 PM Yesterday

Thanks for all your support!!!

Short version: Ms. Average Old Guy is back home -- to ER Monday about 10:30 AM, back home around 4:00 this afternoon. Severe UTI and pneumonia with no idea where either of the infections came from.

Long version.

Sunday she was her usual (83 yr old) self . . . moving a little slow, giving Trump the finger, talking with our 19-yr-old mildly autistic grandson about his job prospects, pissing and moaning at me for some stupid shit I did.

Monday morning 9:30, in bed, called me, she was choking on vomit, got her airway cleared, stripped off nasty PJ's, headed for bathroom and she had no idea where she was, who she was, who I was . . . . I'm an old EMT, ran rescue for 14 years in rural VA, got vitals, BP 80/40, O2 86%, cyanotic, respirations 36 and rapid, pulse 102, chest sounds crackles, rales, rhonchi . Called 911.

Monday through Tuesday night 4X daily IV antibiotics, still confused, did not recognize me or our son, daughter, DIL, or grandsons. Responded to most questions with blank stare, slept constantly.

Wednesday morning was different story -- "Why am I in hospital??" Was suddenly her usual lovably grouchy self, improved gradually, stil unsteady on her feet, appetite returning, all she wants now is a shower.


ALL THE SUPPORT FROM OUR DU FRIENDS REALLY DID MEAN A LOT -- when any of us finds ourselves in the midst of a crisis, it's not the crisis that beats you down, it's the loneliness. Knowing that folks you never met and never will meet are concerned about you, worried about you, sharing your worry keeps you going. THANK YOU ALL.

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Thanks for all your support!!! (Original Post) AverageOldGuy Yesterday OP
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover Yesterday #1
❤️ underpants Yesterday #2
💙💙💙 sheshe2 Yesterday #3
Good news Lifeafter70 Yesterday #4
Happy for both of you malaise Yesterday #5
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post MustLoveBeagles Yesterday #6
Glad she's home and you're both doing better! senseandsensibility Yesterday #7
So happy she's home and on the road back to being her awesome self. a kennedy Yesterday #8
Glad it's ok now. There's no place like home 🙏 surfered Yesterday #9
So glad you were there for her Dear_Prudence Yesterday #10
Oh gosh what a scare! Diamond_Dog Yesterday #11
Wonderful news Grim Chieftain Yesterday #12
Great news oasis Yesterday #13
Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better! electric_blue68 Yesterday #14
I love a happy ending - TBF Yesterday #15
Good news canetoad Yesterday #16
I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #17
When grouchy is a relief BaronChocula Yesterday #18
love good news! markie Yesterday #19
Great to hear IbogaProject Yesterday #20
So glad for both of you that she is home and healing. 3catwoman3 Yesterday #21
"... it's the loneliness." JoseBalow Yesterday #22
Fantastic news! gademocrat7 Yesterday #23
Thanks for the update. yellow dahlia Yesterday #24
So happy to hear the good news! MLAA Yesterday #25
Wow! That EMT experience really came in handy! bsiebs Yesterday #26
So glad she is better! She's lucky you were there for her. Scrivener7 Yesterday #27
Great news! murielm99 Yesterday #28
That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light niyad Yesterday #29
"" AllaN01Bear Yesterday #30
It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again FakeNoose Yesterday #31
She sounds like me! Pucks mom Yesterday #32
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope Yesterday #33
Norovirus is sweeping through our county, in CA Zackzzzz Yesterday #34
Good to hear Mrs. AOG is doing well! Totally Tunsie Yesterday #35
I am so glad. I wonder what the heck happened?? LoisB 23 hrs ago #36
Great news mountain grammy 14 hrs ago #37
Good to hear she's on the mend. mwmisses4289 13 hrs ago #38
Glad to hear the good news! 70sEraVet 12 hrs ago #39
Glad to hear she's doing better. FemDemERA 11 hrs ago #40
Missed the original post on your wife's condition peggysue2 10 hrs ago #41
Glad to hear it is better for her & you irisblue 9 hrs ago #42
Your good news is good news for all of us! calimary 7 hrs ago #43

MustLoveBeagles

(18,019 posts)
6. I'm sorry I missed your earlier post
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:10 PM
Yesterday

I'm glad she's doing better now. Did they figure out what caused it?

Diamond_Dog

(41,362 posts)
11. Oh gosh what a scare!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:20 PM
Yesterday

I’m so glad to hear she is home and back to normal! That must have been really frightening!

Grim Chieftain

(2,230 posts)
12. Wonderful news
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:21 PM
Yesterday

So glad she is doing better. I'll keep you both in my thoughts, prayers and good wishes.

Please keep us posted, dear AverageOldGuy.

electric_blue68

(27,688 posts)
14. Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:24 PM
Yesterday

Really scary start, luckily she had you with extra experience!

JMCKUSICK

(6,773 posts)
17. I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy,
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:30 PM
Yesterday

My Good morning post today touched this very subject.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10182324564

These are tears of joy flowing for your little miracle!

3catwoman3

(30,006 posts)
21. So glad for both of you that she is home and healing.
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 08:10 PM
Yesterday

It seems odd that UTIs are a cause of delirium in seniors, but it's a well-known phenomenon.

niyad

(134,836 posts)
29. That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:14 PM
Yesterday

and love. Vibes for complete recovery and healing for you both.

FakeNoose

(42,796 posts)
31. It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:16 PM
Yesterday

That's the best news I've heard all day! Here's to you and the Mrs......



Pucks mom

(129 posts)
32. She sounds like me!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:27 PM
Yesterday

Grumbling around the house, FDT, what are you doing "Pucks Dad"?

Glad she is back to usual self!

HeartsCanHope

(1,774 posts)
33. So happy for you both!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:52 PM
Yesterday

Sending more healing vibes for Ms. Average Old Guy, and hope for a rapid recovery!

mountain grammy

(29,296 posts)
37. Great news
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 08:29 AM
14 hrs ago

Sounds like she’ll be around to give you shit for a while now. Hope she continues to recover please give her my best wishes.

70sEraVet

(5,710 posts)
39. Glad to hear the good news!
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 10:45 AM
12 hrs ago

And KEEP her slowed down for a while! We always like to PROVE that we are all better, by jumping back to the same level of activities.

peggysue2

(12,634 posts)
41. Missed the original post on your wife's condition
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 12:26 PM
10 hrs ago

Glad to hear she's recovering quickly. How lucky to have a former EMT in the house!

Blessings to both of you for continued healing and life getting back to normal.

calimary

(91,203 posts)
43. Your good news is good news for all of us!
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 03:40 PM
7 hrs ago

Thanks for letting us know how your lady is doing. More updates, please - WHEN you can.

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